Nationwide Help Wanted: Gaming Gatekeepers
For kids' sakes, parents need to answer the nationwide Help Wanted ad for Gaming Gatekeepers -- now. This is especially relevant for our family at the moment, based on watching my seven-year-old's new, disturbing behavior after receiving his very first, high-tech video game a month ago. If he could, he'd play it for hours on end, forsaking active indoor and outside imaginary play with neighborhood friends. He's not alone, new research reveals video games are ubiquitous these days -- 99 percent of boys and 94 percent of girls aged 12 to 17 are gamers. A comparison of studies suggests an American child is about three times more likely to play a video game than ride a bike.
So my husband and I have answered the call, accepting Gaming Gatekeeper positions in the interest of our son's (and daughter's) health. We have seriously limited total screen time in front of both that Star Wars PC-compatible video game and the TV -- no more than two hours per day, usually less. We're manning the gamer gate to keep their bodies and minds within a three-dimensional, active world versus sitting numbly for hours interacting with a flat screen. Each day we try not to call in sick, take a personal day or sleep on the job. Yes, healthier eating habits will chip away at our nation's childhood obesity problem, but I think the lack of physical activity nowadays compared to the Pre-Home Video Game Era is a major factor in rising obesity.
Kids are not churning their legs enough on bicycles, running the backyards or zipping up and down stairs pretending to climb mountains. Instead, they're all thumbs. It's time adults limit screen time and get kids moving again. Here are a few good ideas to get you started. Stay tuned -- I'll soon share creative ways to hurdle even more barriers to outdoor play.







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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 1)
9-18-2008 @ 10:50AM
Bev Sklar said...
Natasha,
Remember, I said "2 hours a day, usually less." 2 hours is an absolute maximum, many days I limit it to 1/2 hour.
From my observation of neighborhood friends, you would not believe how many hours kids are playing video games per day, 2 hours or less would be a marked change to their gaming habits.
Bev
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10-15-2008 @ 2:21PM
Bev Sklar said...
An update to my last comment -- since school started, we're now limiting videogame time to Friday afternoons and weekends only. It's working really well, no major complaints, either.
Bev
9-18-2008 @ 8:36PM
NATASHA said...
2 hours a day? That's 14 hours a week! That is way too much. I don't see how "limiting" gaming to 2 hours a day is going to help.
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10-16-2008 @ 4:20AM
Firekitty said...
If he were older I'd say that the time limit was a little too strict, but at seven I'd be dubious about even giving a child videogames at all, so 2hrs per day is about fair. At that age I *think* I had a gameboy, but it went mostly ignored unless I was stuck in the car or the weather was so inclement that even jumping in puddles wasn't an option. (o.o I did spend a lot of time watching my dad play games on the computer, I expect that counts more as quality time, though.)
As an adult (mostly...just turned 23) gamer, I'd suggest that besides limiting your child's game-time, you also make an effort to game WITH him. Get some multi-player games and make it a family activity to kill a few hours on a rainy day.
If you're a responsible enough parent to keep track of his playing habits I'm sure you already know this, but PLEASE familiarize yourself with the ESRB's (Entertainment Software Ratings Board, ESRB.org) ratings system and read the ratings before you give a game to him...(researching the game's content before would be better, since you know your child's maturity level better than a box, but lacking the time required, at least age ratings and the related descriptors give you an idea of what you're getting.)
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10-15-2008 @ 2:21PM
Bev Sklar said...
Firekitty,
We're not at the ESRB-rating system yet, but I'm sure we'll be there someday. Thanks. Spending time with your child occasionally via gaming is not a bad idea, although I'm sure some would criticize.
Bev