Taking Off Ten: Mistaken Identity
Whether you've got 10, 20 or 100 lbs to shed, weight loss is hard. Taking Off Ten is about the journey to lose 10 lbs -- there's more to it than you think!Yesterday morning, something odd happened to me: I got my regular crowded bus and headed to the middle to grab hold of the pole for the journey downtown, which was only about fifteen minutes long. Shortly after boarding, a women my age tapped me on the shoulder and asked if I'd like her seat. I politely refused and she pressed on; again, I refused and she sat back down.
It's a nice thing to do, but I have to admit, I was baffled. Kindness does still exist where I live; It's not unheard of for a man to give his seat up for a woman, a young person for a senior citizen or an able-bodied person for someone with a disability, but why would a woman the same age as me give up her seat for me and not any of the other bus riders? Readers, you don't know me on a personal basis (At least, I don't think you do ... ) but I can assure you, I do have all my limbs, I don't limp and I don't have any sort of disability, either mental or physical.
Then a cold sweat rushed over me. Was she ... ? Did she ... ? No. The only viable reason I could come up with was this: She must think I'm pregnant. In all fairness to her, I was feeling quite bloated that day after chowing down on Chinese leftovers (I know! Slight set-back. More on that later.) And? It's cold here so I was wearing plenty of layers underneath my heavy winter coat.
But still. My self-confidence for the day was shot. And you know what comes to mind when my self-confidence plummets? Chocolate.
I resisted though, and was even more determined to enjoy a healthy lunch and get rid of the dreaded bloating. It's moments like this that can either set you back or kickstart a waning motivation into high gear. For me, it was the latter.

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1-24-2008 @ 9:11AM
Judy said...
Maybe you looked like you needed to sit down? Maybe she didn't like her seat? I don't know.
I looked at a picture of me taken about a year ago, I was in a swimsuit, and although I was a year post-baby and weighed about what I do now, I looked pretty pg, but was just REALLY bloated that day (and never could figure out why). We all have those days, don't we?
I also once goofed and asked someone when she was due, when she wasn't pg. She was wearing a dress that was high-waisted and very unstylish, and she looked it. Maybe you just looked it.
Or are you pg and you just don't know it?! LOL J/K
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1-24-2008 @ 10:08AM
Martha Edwards said...
Awww, thank for your support. I'm not too worried about it, but it was sort of a kick in the butt at 7am -- haha! I'm going to log some extra time at the gym this weekend and hopefully it won't happen again :)