What makes you feel sexy? I was talking with some friends the other day, and the whole group of us agreed that sexy has nothing to do with Frederick's of Hollywood. (Those things are just scratchy.) My friend Kristen thought her little black dress made her feel sexy, and Ann felt it was her perfume.

I honestly feel the sexiest things I own are my black cowboy boots. I'm in no way shape or form a western type girl; I was born and raised in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. I think that I think my boots are hot, because I feel powerful in them. I love powerful men, so maybe that's the connection. Lingerie had little to do with sexy in the minds of my friends and I.

As for what we found sexy in a man. Kristen was hot for funny jocks and Ann was wild for smart men. I personally never fail to drool when any man in a military or law enforcement uniform walks by. Cowboys, athletes and powerful business men do it for me too. Maybe I just love men! In general though, confidence and power are a very big turn on for me.

Anyway. What does it for you? Makes you feel sexy and what do you find sexy in a mate?