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Hey Smokers! This is what your friends won't tell you. Part 2

Posted: Apr 16th 2007 6:18PM by Fitz K.
Filed under: Emotional Health, Fitness, General Health, Healthy Aging, Healthy Habits, Healthy Home, Women's Health, Men's Health, Healthy Products

A few weeks ago I posted Hey Smokers! This is what your friends won't tell you. and boy did I get some feedback. You know, I wrote it kind of harshly...it is true. It's just one of those things that stick in my craw. This is a blog and AOL welcomes us to be opinionated. It is what it is. I hate smoking. Smoking is not one of those deals that effects just the person doing it; everyone surrounding the smoker is affected. But, what inspired me to write the article was all of my friends who are former smokers.

Across the board, they all are disgusted by smoking now. They also say that they "had no idea how offensive they were being, how gross it smells......even from far away, and also how nasty it looks". Go talk to someone who has already kicked the habit. They probably had no idea how offensive they were. Look, my job is to promote fitness. Most of the time I do it with a happy face, cheerful voice, and congratulating air. Every now and then it's time for straight talk. That's what that blog was all about.

Some people respond to loving hand holding. Some people respond to the harsh truth. If you visit the comment section of that blog, you'll see the suspected replies of "Gee it's my habit, and it's not hurting anyone but me." "I've tried to quit but it's an addiction, none of the remedies actually ever work, woe is me, blah blah blah". I even got cursed out a few times. Oh well. Some accused me of 'hating them'. Nope. I hate smoking. Lots of terrific people smoke, and that's also pretty frusterating.

I also received a bunch of feedback that said, "thank you for telling the truth" etc. More interestingly though, my blog was forwarded a bazillion times. The forwards were apparently all to friends whom the sender was hoping to help quit. The forwards were sent to loved ones with messages like, "please read...this is true" and "I love you....please read this and try to stop."

People are passionate about smoking. Some who do it love it. Some who do it hate it. Most who don't do it, and are merely victims of it... hate it. For those of you who thought it a great idea to curse me out.....good for you. I still hope one day you find a way to quit. I'd like you to live long enough to look back and think how silly you were in the first place to pick up the habit. I'd rather that, than have you think back one day from your ventilator, "that stupid B**** from that stupid blog was right. "

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